Adult intimate hookup
Of course, we didn’t arrive at a destructive hookup culture out of nowhere.
“In hookup culture…beauty is in the eye of the beholders, plural.Her friends smirk, not looking up.“Tinder sucks,” they say. At a booth in the back, three handsome twentysomething guys in button-downs are having beers.They are Dan, Alex, and Marty, budding investment bankers at the same financial firm, which recruited Alex and Marty straight from an Ivy League campus.I have realized over time that I wasn’t defective for wanting even casual sexual encounters to have meaning — even if that meaning was “just” fun, release, and temporary connection.“Clingy, desperate, and needy are extremely effective insults, invoking all the things that students don’t want to be: weak, insecure, unable to control one’s emotions, and powerless to separate sex from feelings. It’s a balmy night in Manhattan’s financial district, and at a sports bar called Stout, everyone is Tindering.