Dating a friend ex wife
Your best bet is to call your friend and tell her what you've heard. Your daughter should never be the one in the middle.
Then explain that you miss her and want to save the friendship. Please know that even if you have a great conversation with your friend and mend your broken relationship, she might prefer to maintain some boundaries when it comes to your ex.
Quite often she calls Adam hoping that he can “set them straight.” I’m certain that she’s the cause of all that chaos, because the kids never go out of control with Adam, and I’ve only seen them be pleasant.
There’s no such thing as Adam without them—that version of Adam simply doesn’t exist.
She doesn’t work, and she collects disability from the government and spousal support and child support from Adam.
She attaches herself to every ailment for which she can find a symptom, and is on all kinds of medication.
Ultimately, he responds not because he doesn’t care about your relationship, but because, like it or not, his kids are his priority.
If you can begin to really accept and ultimately embrace the reality that his kids come first without taking it personally, then you and Adam can sit down and figure out what can be done to improve the situation with their mother.