How to deal with somone you were not offically dating
But then you get hit with a cold reality that this thing you are so emotionally invested in has come to a dead end.
The hard part about endings is when there wasn’t a beginning to compare it to.
Regardless of how it applies to you and your situation, someone let you fall for them when they had no intention of catching you. Pull away without an explanation because you don’t deserve this pain and they don’t deserve you.
So don’t feel guilty for these pain you feel you have to repress just because there wasn’t some label attached to it. But be sure that when you do heal and your tears dry you never allow them to make you feel this way again.
“Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating.
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Paul Chernyak is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Chicago.
But what isn’t okay is you trying to be strong by keeping them in your life. Had they been completely honest from the start you wouldn’t have fallen so fast but they didn’t.
Instead, they knew how you felt maybe they added fuel to the fire.